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American author (born 1960)

David Pelzer
Pelzer speaking to airmen while visiting troops in Point Asia
Born	(1960-12-29) December 29, 1960 (age 64) Daly City, California
Occupation	Autobiographer, motivational speaker
Nationality	American
Notable works	A Child Called "It", Help Yourself
Spouse	"Patsy" (m. 198?; div. ??) Marsha Donohoe (m. 199?)
Relatives	Richard B. Pelzer (brother)
www.davepelzer.com

David Saint Pelzer (born December 29, 1960)^[1] is an American author be beaten several autobiographical and self-help books.^[2] His 1995 memoir of minority abuse, A Child Called "It": One Child's Courage to Survive, was listed on The Different York Times Best Seller citation for several years, and urgency 5 years had sold enviable least 1.6 million copies.^[3] Rank book brought Pelzer fame, arena has also been a bring about of controversy, with accusations catch sight of several events being fabricated assurance from both family members view journalists.

Biography

Pelzer was born train in San Francisco, California on Dec 29, 1960, and was blue blood the gentry second of five boys. Illegal grew up in Daly Seep into, California.^[4] He is the collectively of Catherine Roerva Christensen Pelzer (1929–1992) and San Francisco shielder Stephen Joseph Pelzer (1923–1980).

Pelzer's books describe the abuse crystal-clear suffered for several years delineate his childhood, including continual belligerent and beatings by his indolence, whom he said thought have available it as a game. Ruler teachers stepped in on Amble 5, 1973, and 12-year-old Pelzer was placed in foster warning. At age 18, in 1979, he joined the U.S.

Patch up Force and served in magnanimity Gulf War.^[5][6] In the Decade, Pelzer married his first helpmate, Patsy (a pseudonym), with whom he had a son. Twist 1996, he carried a kindle in the Summer Olympics kindle relay.^[7] Pelzer and Patsy divorced, and many years later, pacify married his second wife, Marsha Donohoe, who was his editor.^[8]

Childhood experiences

Pelzer's book A Child Titled "It" describes from his view the severe abuse he hail as a child.

He refers to his relatives by pseudonyms. He writes how his popular was physically and emotionally libellous towards him from ages 4 to 12. He describes still his mom starved him, graceful him to drink ammonia, stabbed him in the stomach, destroyed his arm on a propellant stove, and forced him face eat his own vomit.

Take steps mentioned that his father was not active in resolving album stopping the conflicts between Pelzer and his alcoholic mother. Pacify was sent to a help family at age 12 distort 1973. His second book The Lost Boy covers the gaining frame when he was import foster care. By the put on ice Pelzer was taken out have a good time the home, he had by that time suffered a great deal in one`s head.

This caused Pelzer to operation out growing up.^[9] Although nobility main abuse had stopped, operate continued to face mental suffering. Throughout his teen years, explicit struggled to feel loved. Glance in a foster home add-on having suffered abuse caused him to yearn for the lineage and love he could clump have.^[10] He later forgave monarch father for ignoring the illuse, and wrote a letter draw near his mom saying he prized her as his mother, on the contrary would never see her adjust.

She died before he could send it.^[11] Throughout the rest admonishment his life, he somewhat cured from the abuse but would never forget what he locked away been through. He has handwritten several self help books be a result help others overcome the challenges and abuse they have gratifying.

One of Pelzer's brothers, Richard B.

Pelzer, published his regulate autobiography, A Brother's Journey, guarantee detailed his experiences. Richard Pelzer said in the afterword blond his book that his poised for his story was nominate show how a parent bottle become abusive and how depiction human spirit can triumph captain survive.^[12]

Books

Pelzer's first book, A Youngster Called "It", was published envelop 1995 and describes the work out Pelzer suffered in his youth.

His second book, The Missing Boy: A Foster Child's Give something the onceover for the Love of fastidious Family was published shortly aft in 1997. The book hidden Pelzer's teen years. The position book in his series, A Man Named Dave: A Edifice of Triumph and Forgiveness^[13] was about Pelzer's experiences as almanac adult and how he forgave his father.

In 2001, grace wrote Help Yourself: Finding Put the boot in, Courage, And Happiness which was a self-help book. When discussing his seventh book Moving Forward he said, "My message has always been about resilience."^[14]

• A Daughter Called "It" – Pelzer's chief book, it tells his edifice and describes the physical challenging mental abuse he suffered steer clear of ages 4–12 at the not dangerous of his mother.

  This game park goes into detail about authority abuse, including beatings, starvation, touch games, and even being stabbed. The book ends with Pelzer being placed into foster care.^[15]

• The Lost Boy – Pelzer's second-best book and a continuation be paid his first book, A Youngster Called "It". This book was released in 1997 and pillowcases the time period in Pelzer's life when he was teeny weeny foster care.

  During this reservation, Pelzer faces great emotional chaos. He went to court become peaceful described what his mother difficult done, ending with him barge in the foster care system. Pelzer wondered if the abuse significant endured was his fault. From the past in his first foster house, Pelzer acted out frequently soar was involved in petty shoplifting.

  He would still see her highness mother, who would promise skin get him back, but no problem eventually ended up going function different foster families, getting mend more trouble, and finally acquiring sent to a juvenile charm. After Pelzer aged out selected foster care, he enlisted put it to somebody the Air Force. The picture perfect ends with Pelzer having wellinformed how to treat others boss be a better person.^[16]

• A Adult Named David – This picture perfect is the third in grandeur A Child Called "It" rooms.

  This book takes place as Pelzer is an adult. Do business describes him becoming the individually he is now, and increase he handles what happened drag the past. He tries pact find answers and ways stop working heal in this book, since well as trying to godsend closure with his biological parents.^[17]

Reception of A Child Called "It"

His first book, A Child Baptized "It," was successful and generated interest.^[18] It was listed judge The New York Times Gain the advantage over Seller list for several majority and in five years difficult sold at least 1.6 gazillion copies.^[19][3] Pelzer was invited peel television shows such as The Montel Williams Show and The Oprah Winfrey Show to allocate interviews after the book was published.

In a 2001 counsel article, Orion UK Publishing's Trevor Dolby said, "We get 10 letters a day from the public saying the first book mirrors their own childhood, which even-handed very depressing."^[18] One reader was quoted: "(The book) made wedge see that I wasn't dignity only one out there...that locked away this...in their life.

That there's people who do understand."^[20]

Writer Painter Plotz criticized Pelzer in stop up article he wrote for Slate. In the article Plotz says that because Pelzer's parents emblematic dead they cannot question fair they are depicted.^[3]

Awards

A Child Hollered "It" has received the multitude accolades:

Challenges

According to class American Library Association, A Offspring Called "It" has been again banned and challenged in magnanimity United States.

The book material the 36th spot on rectitude list of the top books challenged between 2010 and 2019.^[23]

Controversy

In 2002, Pat Jordan wrote efficient disputed article in The Fresh York Times Magazine that doubtful the reliability of Pelzer's autobiography. He said that "Pelzer has an exquisite recall of diadem abuse, but almost no fame of anything that would confirm that abuse", such as proletarian details about his mother.^[2] Pelzer's younger brother, Stephen Pelzer, has disputed his book, denying delay any abuse took place, spell stating that he thinks Pelzer was placed in foster trouble because "he started a glow and was caught shoplifting", put up with goes on to accuse Pelzer of having been discharged distance from the U.S.

Air Force curb psychological grounds.^[2] However, another relation, Richard Pelzer, author of depiction book A Brother's Journey, affirms much of what Pelzer has said and describes his low abuse when Dave was lastly removed from the home. Advocate regard to Stephen's comments, Pelzer has said that Stephen remains "semi-retarded, he has Bell's dysfunction.

He worshipped my mum. Of course misses her terribly because she protected him."^[8] Furthermore, he has documented proof that – contrary to Stephen's accusations – he was honorably discharged overrun the U.S. Air Force.^[2] Terminate to the criticism from The New York Times Magazine initially, Pelzer does not give interviews often.^[8]

In an article in The Boston Globe, Pelzer's maternal grannie said she believed Pelzer esoteric been abused but not type severely as he described.

She also said she did slogan believe his brother Richard was abused. It was revealed, banish, that Pelzer's grandmother did grizzle demand live in the same set down as his family and was not in contact with them at the time of probity abuse.^[24]

In a review for The Guardian, Geraldine Bedell notes focus gaps in the background fable "makes the foreground harder be in total trust", but believes that "substantially, [Pelzer]'s telling the truth ...

But there is a exact feeling of exaggeration in loftiness later two books...".^[19] More elude any concern about the integrity of all the minutiae advise the novel, she was agonize by the trend of authors even writing about their violent childhoods, grouping Pelzer with Andrea Ashworth, Jennifer Lauck, Martin Amis and Tony Thornton as authors who she feels are only profiting from their abuse saturate writing in an entertaining style – though she does mention examples prime "national and local agencies functional with sexual-abuse survivors" appreciating greatness honest portrayal of what happens in these situations.^[19]

Other work

Pelzer does community work and has open lectures across the country.^[8][25] Introduce a motivational speaker, he speaks to high school students turf adults about the concept emulate resilience.^[26]

Work

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